Best Read of 2023: "Braiding Sweetgrass" by Robin Wall Kimmerer

Date(s) of reading

There’s a reason I’ve chosen Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer for my “Best Read of 2023. I have, in fact, read it all the way through twice, and have dipped in and out of different chapters throughout the year.
My first reading was in February and March of 2023, as I listened through the audiobook (read by Kimmerer herself) slowly. My second reading was in May and June, after a friend gifted me a physical copy of this wonderful book.

Honey and Jane present this year’s Best Read: Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer.

Why this book?

I found my way to this book after watching BBC4’s "The Magical World of Moss” with my granny back in February. It was an intriguing programme, and I went upstairs that evening very much wanting to learn more. So I did what I always do: started looking for books.

My search lead me to Robin Wall Kimmerer’s book Gathering Moss. Unfortunately for my tight budget, I was unable to find somewhere I could read it for free. No libraries I’m part of had it, and it wasn’t included in my audiobook membership. But guess what was? A book by the same author: Braiding Sweetgrass.

So, I got it. And I listened to it.

I listened to it as I worked on crocheting a blanket. I listened to it while flying internationally. I listened to it as I chopped vegetables for battuto. I listened to it, frequently skipping backwards to listen again to something I’d missed, or something that had especially captured my attention. I listened, and listened, and listened.

And, of course, told everyone about it.

What is this book about?

This book’s subtitle reads “Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants”. This is an apt, if somewhat dry, summary of the book’s thesis. Kimmerer is a Potawatomi ecologist. The Potawatomi are one of North America’s First Nations, and her family’s history along with her journey of reconnecting with her heritage shape Kimmerer’s book just as much as her training as a scientist and knowledge as an ecologist.

With a deft lyrical hand, Kimmerer weaves together the strands of scientific methodology and research, the historic (and ongoing) knowledge and wisdom of Indigenous peoples, and her own lived experiences. The result is a reflective and insightful body of work that challenges the reader’s ways of thinking about the world whilst teaching them a good deal about the ecological world in which we live.

My thoughts on this book

I loved this book. Obviously. It’s why I picked it out of the 100+ books I’ve read this year to share here. I loved it, and I’ve been telling everyone they should read it as well.

Kimmerer writes from a worldview and perspective that is quite different from my own. This is, in every single way, a good thing. It forced me to stop, re-read, consider, and rethink. All vitally important, especially as a British person living on colonised land myself. The Potawatomi are from North America, and I am in Australia, but the lessons and as relevant to me as they would be to a white American. Indigenous ways of thinking are radically different from non-Indigenous ways of thinking, and these differences contribute knowledge and understanding currently lacking in non-Indigenous thought and knowledge.

Kimmerer’s training as a scientist, and her experience as a researcher and writer, has perfectly positioned her to bridge the gap between Western scientific ways of knowing and Indigenous ways of knowing. She provides the reader with a clear map with which to orient themselves in the knew ways of thinking and knowing, and then to navigate them.

Kimmerer’s writing is clear, but may require re-reading in order to understand and fully absorb the things she is saying. For this reason, whilst I want everyone to read this book, I warn you that if you are wanting a light, easy read, this is probably not the book you want to reach for. If, however, you want to learn something, be challenged, and see the world in a new light, then this is exactly the book for you.

How this book has affected me

We are showered every day with gifts, but they are not meant for us to keep. Their life is in their movement, the inhale and exhale of our shared breath. Our work and our joy is to pass along the gift and to trust that what we put into the universe will always come back.
— Robin Wall Kimmerer

In my opinion, the best books are the ones that shift something inside of you, making reality just that bit more real and relationships that bit more precious. The Anne books do this for me without fail, and this is the effect that Braiding Sweetgrass has had on me.

This book has adjusted the way I perceive the world around me. I look at my garden and am more conscious of the intricate totality of the ecosystems and lives that fill it. I pay closer attention to the rain as it falls, to the way leaves bud and flowers mature into fruit. I stop and turn my head in the direction of birdsong more often, and sit breathing more intentionally. I watch the skies more closely and study the food I prepare more intently. I’ve even cooked food from this book, and Three Sisters Soup is now a family favourite.

I have read more. I’ve read books that dive into the science of trees, or soil, or mushrooms, or or or. And with every new book, my world becomes bigger, more complex, more extraordinary, and yet more integrated, more friendly, more intimate.

Braiding Sweetgrass has also clarified, challenged, enhanced and given new direction to my understanding of community. Kimmerer speaks extensively on gift economy and reciprocity. I would not have expected this to result in a paradigm shift. We Christians speak regularly about generosity and gratitude. However, there is a mutuality to reciprocity that is frequently missing from the Christian rhetoric.’

The number of times I have heard “you come to church to serve, not to be served” is probably concerning. In theory, if everyone is serving then everyone is being served. In practice, however, if the purpose of going to church is to serve, then what happens when you can’t serve? And when the advice that is given when you are feeling discouraged is to “serve more”, how does one avoid internalising the belief that there is a limit to how much help one can ask for?

Approaching my relationships with others with the mindset of reciprocity has alleviated some of those concerns. “A gift is also a responsibility” says Kimmerer, and I am now better able to say “my gift is this, and my responsibility is to use it well, and that includes setting boundaries and limits. Other have gifts and it is their responsibility to use them well, and that includes responding to my needs when they are able.” I find I am more able to accept a gift of time, or service, or finances without guilt, and more able to identify and value my own reciprocal gifts: service, time, or finances as I am able to.

And it all started here, with Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer.

Follow-up Reading Recommendations

Honey and Jane seen here modelling the follow up reading recommendations (sans The Power of Trees by Peter Wohlleben. That was already returned to the library).

The Power of Trees by Peter Wohlleben
Just about anything by German forester turned ecologist Wohlleben would be an excellent companion to this book. Like Kimmerer, Wohlleben combines scientific research and lived experience to tell the stories of nature in language the average reader can understand. The Power of Trees, however, is his most recent release, and is filled with fascinating information and insights. I thoroughly enjoyed reading it.
I would like to take this opportunity to shout out Jane Billinghurst. I can’t read German, the original language of Wohlleben’s books, but Billinghurst has translated most of the ones I have read. Her translations ensure the accessibility and passion of Wohlleben’s work is not lost (in translation), but instead is just as available to the English language reader.

Entangled Life by Merlin Sheldrake
Of the non-fiction books listed here, mycologist Merlin Sheldrake’s Entangled Life is perhaps the most scientifically detached. This is not to say it is cold and clinic. Sheldrake’s writing is engaging and clear, his passion for the mycelium he studies fills every page. Still, his approach was clearly “how can I make this exciting science accessible to the layperson?” rather than “I’m going to tell stories about nature and science is part of that”. Part of the difference in approach is probably down to Sheldrake’s youth. Sheldrake is still in his 30s, whereas both Kimmerer and Wohlleben have 2+ on him. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that, and I enjoyed every single moment of his book. That’s why I’m recommending it. Fungus is mindboggling and, quite frankly, so cool! I hope Sheldrake writes more in the future. I’m willing to bet he has more to tell us about the wonderful world of fungi.

Future Girl by Asphyxia
Unlike the other books in this post, Future Girl is a novel. It is a novel in the emerging genre of “solarpunk fiction” - my generation’s answer to the “cyberpunk fiction” embodied in works such as Blade Runner. Like cyberpunk, solarpunk examines trends in society and draws an image of a possible future. Unlike cyberpunk, solarpunk presents a hopeful action plan for pushing back against our increasingly dystopian lives, encouraging us to focus on community and intentionally cultivate relationship with nature. Future Girl does this wonderfully, as Asphyxia, herself a Deaf Australian, follows Piper - a Deaf Australian teenager in a Melbourne of soaring costs of living, corporate greed, and environmental disaster - as she finds herself and her place in community through her decision to start growing her own food garden.

My Favourite Books

Given that I am an avid reader, what better way to start my “Just 10 Things” series than with a post about my Top 10 favourite books of all time??

Now, within these ten, I can’t really rank them. However, I will admit to the fact that the top five on this list are my top five books over all. They’re just amazing OK?!

Also, I won’t be mentioning the Bible, not because I don’t love it, but because it’s obvious. Of course it’s one of my favourite and most read books.

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The Miraculous Journey of Edward Tulane, by Kate DiCamillo

Yeah, so, it’s been three years since I was introduced to this book, and I’ve read it probably a dozen times since then. Just talking about it now is making me want to read it again.

Hayao Miyazaki said “I would like to make a film to tell children ‘it’s good to be alive’”. And that’s how this book makes me feel. When I’m struggling and life just feels too hard, this is the book I pick up.

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Pride and Prejudice, by Jane Austen

Yeah, I know. This one is a little cliche. But I do love it. I love Lizzie’s wit and Darcy’s extreme social awkwardness (I get it, mate, I do). This is a such a fun book, whilst having some really pointed things to say about the roles of love and respect in relationships.

Weirdly though, and here’s a confession, despite being a longstanding all time favourite book, it’s not actually my favourite book by Jane Austen. For that, you need to look to Persuasion.

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The Book Thief, by Markus Zusak

“I have hated the words, and I have loved them. And I hope I have made them right.”

Just… just beautiful.

As a reader and a writer, this book speaks straight to my soul. And, like many of the other books on this list, it makes me glad to be alive.

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Anne of Green Gables, L. M. Montgomery

Oh, that Anne-girl! I love her dearly. This book is an old friend and re-reading it is like a portal back into childhood. Although, admittedly, when I was a child, I wasn’t much interested in it. I am now, though. I am now!

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A Tale of Two Cities, by Charles Dickens

I’ve only read this book once (so far), but it stands out in my memory it so many ways. I love Dickens’s descriptions, I love his use of simile and metaphor, and I love what he has to say about trauma, courage, love and family.

Seriously, people far more qualified than I am have commented on and analysed how spot on his depiction of trauma and PTSD was, at a time when neither were really recognised as being things - especially not for men, so I won’t go into it myself. But this is an amazing book and I love it.

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The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society, by Mary Ann Shaffer and Annie Barrows

I have not read many novels in letters, which is what this is. I tend to find myself struggling with the tonal shifts and character switches. I did not have that problem here. Instead, the characters - even ones who never write their own letters - feel vibrant and real, each voice adding to the story that’s unfolding.

This novel is beautifully written, and is simultaneously a love letter to books and a heartbreaking/heartwarming look at life during the Second World War - particularly in the only part of the British Isles to fall under German occupation, Guernsey.

It’s a wonderful tale of love, friendship, grief and moving forward in the face of immense tragedy. I can not recommend it highly enough.

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The Tenant of Wildfell Hall, by Anne Bronte

Controversial opinion time: as much as I enjoy Wuthering Heights and Jane Eyre, I can sometimes find them to be overrated, certainly misunderstood. The Tenant of Wildfell Hall, though, I believe to be criminally underrated.

Drawing on her experiences as a governess, Anne Bronte shone a spotlight on a massive problem within her society: the abuse of wives by their husbands. She even accurately portrayed how abusive behaviours are taught and passed down through the generations, showing that it takes willful intervention to break the cycle. As you can imagine, it did not go over well.

I love it. I love Anne’s bravery in looking at this topic, and I adore her heroine, Helen.

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The Princess Saves Herself in this One, Amanda Lovelace

If that title doesn’t get your attention, I don’t know what will.

This is the first in a trilogy of poetry collections by Lovelace all with similar anti-fairytale style titles. Sadly, I have not yet been able to read the second and third. This one, though, I adore.

Through her poetry, one can trace a story of pain and grief and strength and hope. It connects with my heart, and helps me find the words to express myself as well.

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The Dark Between Stars, by Atticus

This is the second in a trilogy of poetry by Atticus. The third book is coming out in a couple of months and I am so excited. Atticus’s poetry is so beautiful, so elegant, and is a wonderful celebration of the small, beautiful things. I love curling up with this book and a hot chocolate after a stressful day or week or month.

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A Monster Calls, by Patrick Ness

This was the book that got me started on Patrick Ness. This is also the book that really opened my eyes to how creatively writers can explore grief and loss through their novels. It’s beautiful and poignant and caring. This is a novel that has helped to shape not only my understanding of grief, but also my understanding of what I can do in my own writing.

So amazing.

Honourable mentions

So, these are my top 10 books of all time. It was really hard to settle on just ten books, with what book I would include as my 10th changing constantly. So, here are some honourable mentions.

  • Dracula, by Bram Stoker

  • Never Let Me Go, by Kazuo Ishiguro

  • Seven Little Australians, by Ethel Turner

  • Little Women, by Louisa May Alcott

Given that I will probably talk about all of these in future posts, I won’t expand on it here.

Over to You

What are some of your favourite books?

Have you read any of the books on this list? If so, what did you think?

Please let me know in the comments below!